This is the house where I was born.
拆分：1. This is the house. 2. In this house I was born.
后行词就是：In this house
He is the boy with whom I will go to shanghai.
I am looking for a man who is rich, cute and well-educated.
The book which I am reading is written by Tomas Hardy.
修饰his，her，its，their，your one ‘s等等表示所属关系的词，用whose
He is the man whose car was stolen. = He is the man. His car was stolen.
You are the only one whose advice he might listen to.
This is the house where I was born. = This is the house. In this house I was born.
This is the house that belongs to my brother. = This house belongs to my brother.
He came at a time when we needed help. = At that time we needed help.
He came at a time which was just perfect. = The time was just perfect.
如果后行词是原因状语for this/that reason，就用why替换。
I knew the reason why he was late. = For this reason he was late.
The reason that he explained at the meeting was not acceptable. = He explained the reason at the meeting.
English is a “fixed-word-order” language where each phrase has a fixed position. = In this language each phrase has a fixed position.
Life isn’t some musical cartoon where you sing a little song, and your insipid dreams magically come true! = In that cartoon you sing a little song, and your insipid dreams magically come true!
There are occasions when one must yield.（任何人都有不得不屈服的时候。） = One must yield on those occasions.